Cotillion is Shaping Williamson's County Young Leaders

Apr 10, 2025 at 10:50 am by RMGadmin


by Suzette Wimpy  |  Director of Nashville & Williamson County Chapters National League of Junior Cotillions

For generations, families across Williamson County have embraced a tradition that is equal parts grace, honor, and fun: Pre and Junior Cotillion. While the term “cotillion” may conjure images of ballrooms and white gloves, today’s programs offer so much more than dance steps. They provide young students with the tools to navigate life with confidence, kindness, and respect; skills that never go out of style.
 
What Exactly Is Cotillion? 
Pre and Junior Cotillion are age-appropriate programs designed for elementary and middle school students to help them develop essential social skills, etiquette, and poise. Through a blend of structured lessons, interactive skits, and social dancing, students learn the timeless art of introductions, conversation skills, table manners, and respectful behavior, both in person and online.  These Cotillion programs are designed to be fun and engaging, with students practicing everything from how to shake hands confidently to how to handle themselves at a formal dinner. And yes, there’s dancing; because learning to dance with a partner is not just about steps, but about showing consideration, respect, and understanding appropriate boundaries with peers of the opposite gender. 
 
Cotillion helps students develop confidence in interacting politely and appropriately, preparing them for social and professional situations they’ll encounter in the years ahead. 
 
A Community Tradition 
What makes Williamson County’s Pre and Junior Cotillion programs unique is the deep sense of community and tradition they foster. Many local families have participated for generations, passing down the values of honor, dignity, and respect from parent to child. In a fast-paced, technology-driven world, Cotillion offers a refreshing return to personal connection and face-to-face communication. Some of our current students have parents and even grandparents who attended Junior Cotillion themselves. There’s a real sense of pride in carrying on that tradition while also updating the program to reflect the social challenges of today’s world. 
 
Why Manners Matter More Than Ever 
Today’s parents know that good manners and social confidence go far beyond knowing which fork to use at dinner. The real gift of Junior Cotillion is the confidence to walk into any room, whether it’s a classroom, a college interview, or a first job, and feel at ease. Cotillion students learn to: Make a great first impression, show respect to peers and adults, start (and gracefully end) conversations, handle themselves at social events, use proper dining etiquette, demonstrate kindness and inclusion, and navigate appropriate boundaries and respectful interactions with peers.
 
These are lifelong skills that will serve them well in school, in friendships, in leadership roles, and beyond. 
 
More Than Just Polite – It’s Fun! 
Ask any current NLJC student what they love most, and you might be surprised. It’s not just about the dancing or the dress-up events (though they do love those!). It’s the confidence they gain; the ability to step up, speak up, and show up with poise and personality. Many students make new friends along the way, bonding over shared laughs during skits and dances. We’ve had students who started out shy and hesitant, but by the end of the season, they’re the first to offer their hand for a dance or lead a conversation. Watching that transformation is what makes Junior Cotillion so special. 
 
Join the Tradition 
Pre and Junior Cotillion registration is now open, and spaces fill quickly. Whether your child is outgoing or on the quieter side, Cotillion offers a welcoming environment where every student can shine, and where timeless skills meet modern confidence. 
 
To learn more or to reserve your child’s place, you can visit www.nljc.com/chapter/williamsonco. You can also follow along on social media for sneak peeks into the fun, friendships and memorable moments that make Cotillion a treasured tradition in Williamson County.